It's been months, more than just a few, since writing anything on my little blog. And it's not because there's nothing more to say, quite the contrary! It's just that my days are filled with museum visits and playing with dinosaurs... Building snowmen and watching Jack's favorite movies. Something we both enjoy is going to the gym throughout the week. It gives me a chance to do a spin class or an hour of yoga, while he heads off to Kids Place where he gets time playing with other kids, and see the supervising ladies who adore him. And it's here in Kids Place where my story begins. About two months ago Jack and I were hustling into Kids Place, and I was running late for class. As I checked him in and got his coat off, I overheard two women talking about an adoption that was about to take place of a baby girl just days old. The 1st Woman was there picking up her kid(s) after her workout, the 2nd Woman was one of the Kids Place supervisors. Of course...
I never knew how tiring it would be to parent a toddler, all day, every day. I’m the primary caregiver… The stay at home mom… The book reader… The cook… The human jungle gym… I am loving this chapter of my life, and of Jack’s life too! It’s just that looking back I think I was a bit on the naïve side. I’ll never forget a conversation I had with my best friend, Jody. At that time she was the mother to just one, and Jack hadn’t even come into our lives yet. I stated, with the upmost confidence, that becoming a mother would not change my lifestyle. I would still manage to get to the salon every 6 to 8 weeks or so for a haircut and color. I’d still enjoy regular shellac manicures and pedicures. We would continue to be regulars at our favorite Sicilian restaurant. And I would still paddleboard at least twice a week! Chris and I would come up with a system, I explained. While Jack slept I would suit up my car with everything needed for a two or three hour p...